...for the new baby Lam. I've known Melissa since 1997.  Our friendship started in the beginning of freshman year at Hope College.  It's seen many phases in the last 14 years.  She even lived in our upstairs apartment for 5 years.  And now she's becoming a mom.  I'm very excited for her and the arrival of her little boy.  Yesterday Harriet and I had the honor of throwing her a shower.  It was really nice to spend a Saturday morning with friends.  This was Harriet's first shower.  I think that she got the hang of it.